It’s been five weeks since we’ve seen each other. It was hard for me at first, when I looked at your empty spot in the bathroom. Even harder sometimes when I thought of you under the bed collecting dust. There were several times in those first few weeks of our separation that I just wanted to get you out from under the bed and put you back. I wanted to forget that I had banished you from my life, and I wanted everything to be normal again. But I’m stronger than that. So I left you there. I’m not going to say I’m sorry for what I’ve done because I’m not.
When we parted, all you were doing was causing me pain. It felt like an endless cycle of frustration every time you and I were together. A girl can’t live like that. There has to be something else. She can’t give anything that much power. And yet there I was, practically every day, hoping that somehow you would change everything. Wishing that just once you would show me something that I could be proud of. But you never did, so I had to say goodbye for a while.
I think the time we have spent apart has been good for me. I’ve done a lot of things in the last 5 weeks, none of which had anything to do with you. I learned the art of celebrating non scale victories and I can see two tiny little dimples on my tummy where I think my abs are trying to break free. I did that all on my own without your help. And that spot of yours in the bathroom has been taken up by something else. Looks like I might be learning to live without you.
Originally we were only supposed to take a break for 5 weeks. This amount of time was intended to get me past the marathon training, plus two weeks to get my eating and regular exercise back on track. We’re quickly approaching the time for our reunion. I don’t know how to feel about it. I want to see you, but I’m afraid that we’ll just end up right back where we were 5 weeks ago. And all that frustration and hurt will come rushing back, erasing all the victories over the last month. And what if you have bad news for me? I’m not sure I could handle it. So I’m at a loss. Part of me wants to build a healthy relationship with you. Part of me just wants to leave you under the bed for ever and ever. So what do we do?
I think I want to try to make this work. I really do. I think building our relationship is important. So let’s go forward with the reunion. But don’t expect that same old me. I’m going to be on guard and probably a little shy. And if I don’t feel like you’re not giving me what I want, then I might just put you under the bed again. And it might be like that between the two of us for the next couple of months. But let’s try this relationship again and see where it goes. I think both of us have had some time off and we can make it work. I have faith and I’m willing to try.
All the Best,
Jackie